Top 35 Emily Giffin Quotes

I’ve been obsessed with the Kennedys since I was a child, and Bobby Kennedy is, hands down, my favorite among them.

I was actually born in Baltimore! Although I moved away when I was quite young and consider Chicago to be my hometown, Baltimore is sentimental to me, and I still keep in touch with family friends I knew as a little girl.

Well, shoes, bags and clutches are usually my big weaknesses – my husband always laughs when I call them ‘investment pieces.’

A theme in a lot of my books – and in my own life – is making choices that you feel you should make, or what society wants you to make, as opposed to what is truly right for you.

I did read all my old diaries and was quite surprised by the overwhelming melancholic tone. I remember things being rosier than they really were.

Everyone wants to belong, or be a part of something bigger than themselves, but it’s important to follow your heart and be true to yourself in the process.

I think exercise is critical to my writing and an essential way to recharge.

For true downtime, I enjoy going for light runs, having drinks with friends and going to the movies with my husband.

Guilt is a supreme waste of time and energy.

I really try to focus on my books and readers.

Writing a teen character is something I wanted to try again for a long time!

My books are all relationship-focused, so much of my inspiration comes from my own relationships and the issues and concerns that arise among my friends and family.

The best thing about being an author is writing stories and having people – strangers all over the world – connect with them.

Often I feel that projects overwhelm us when we look at how many hours are involved until completion. But just getting started is usually not that difficult.

I never outline my novels before I write. I do have a vague sense of beginning, middle, and end at the outset of each book, but for me, writing has always been a very character-driven process.

I don’t really know why I went to law school.

My favorite movie of all-time is ‘Stand By Me,’ and I re-read my favorite young adult books often.

I try to recognize that there is no such thing as having it all – and it’s impossible to be perfect. You just have to let certain things go.

I try to have something in common with my protagonists, especially when I’m writing in the first person.

I think it always feels riskier and scarier to go after something you really love and want because the rejection and failure hurts more.

My books aren’t autobiographical.

I find flawed characters much more interesting than perfect ones and enjoy the challenge of making readers root for them in spite of their unsympathetic path and destructive choices.

I aim for four workouts a week. I work out with a trainer once a week. Then, I take a circuit class twice a week. The fourth workout is random, depending on what I’m in the mood for – either a run, a spin class, or yoga.

I’ve always been intrigued by the power of secrets. When is it justifiable to keep them from the ones we love? And does keeping them irrevocably change who we are?

I think it’s important to try to be present with whatever it is you’re doing. And if you can’t be present, take a break.

I write about messy relationships, and they put pastel covers on them, but I can’t complain.

‘Something Borrowed‘ was initially titled ‘Rolling the Dice,’ but my editor said it sounded like a men‘s gambling memoir.

To write convincingly, I think you must be able to relate, in some way, to what a character is experiencing.

For an interesting nonfiction read, I really enjoyed ‘Quiet‘ by Susan Cain. I read it with my husband, who is a true introvert, whereas I am an introvert masquerading as an extrovert.

I have unabashed Bieber Fever and routinely Google ‘Justin and Selena.’ They are so cute together.

I like to match what I wear to my book jacket – it’s a little bit cheesy, but it’s my thing.

My mother has always been an Anglophile and taught my sister and me to love British history and literature.

Life is about the gray areas. Things are seldom black and white, even when we wish they were and think they should be, and I like exploring this nuanced terrain.

I’m a huge Elizabeth Berg fan. Her novels are always charming, thoughtful, and filled with lively, three-dimensional characters.

Like the rest of the planet, I’m absolutely dying to see Baz Luhrmann’s ‘The Great Gatsby’ and am thrilled that Leonardo DiCaprio was cast in it – he‘s perfect.